House rules
Last updated 23 September 2026.
A table works when everyone at it looks after everyone else. Here is what that means.
- Come if you booked. If you cannot, cancel in the app so someone else can have your seat.
- Turn up on time. If you are running late, tell your table in the app.
- Talk to everyone at the table, not only the person next to you.
- Ask before you take a photo of anyone, and before you post it.
- What people tell you at the table stays at the table.
- Do not sell anything, recruit anyone or campaign at the table. People came to meet people.
- Do not touch anyone who has not invited it, and stop the moment someone asks you to.
- Keep the chat for the evening: where you are, who is at the door, when you will arrive.
- Pay your own bill before you leave.
- If something feels wrong, tell us. Use "Report a problem" on your table page. If you are in danger, call 112.
The other pages
The rest of what we have written about a Detor Social Table.